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Okay, obviously this is my house, but could it be your house, too? Stop right now and look around. Any piles of stuff laying around? Papers, kitchen items, school stuff, clothing, toys? Maybe books or electronic gadgets? I'm not spying, I promise, but if you're like most of us, there's often something stacking up around the house. Take a minute and ask yourself why it's all there and not someplace else.
Here's my guess as to the top 5 reasons for piles around the home...
#5 lack of time to deal with it or bad routines
#4 you plan to use it in the immediate near future
#3 you're afraid that out-of-sight means out-of-mind, so you've left it where you can see it
#2 one of the kids left it laying around when your back was turned and now it has sat there for a week!
#1 you're not sure what to do with it because it doesn't have a "home"(and other family members are suffering from the same dilemma)
If lack of time or poor maintenance routines are an issue, give yourself 10-15 minutes each day to tackle the piles and you'll find they're shrinking fairly fast. Do it for 30 days and you'll have that habit in place. If you plan to use it in the future, there are ways to manage it that will keep the item at hand while still keeping them "in mind". If it's the kids, you have a parenting issue, not so much an organizing one, UNLESS... they're like you and they don't really know where to put it.
I've tried to make a home for each item in the house for a few years, but seems like I avoided a few items because they were tougher to find a good location to park them. This summer, my goal was to find a home for EVERY LAST THING!!! That's right... every item down to the last paper.
To do this, I found I had to go back and do a little purging... again. But, purging needs to happen on a regular basis anyway. I got my donation box all set up and items are headed to the thrift store. Next I had to do some creative problem solving for these tough to place items.
I found that if I narrowed down WHERE it should go, based on where I use the item, then I at least had a starting place. Next I usually took everything out of the space where I wanted to house it and just stared. Yep, you read that right... stare. And think. And imagine. Sometimes I'd google some ideas on the Internet, but usually I thought about how I WANTED the space to look with the item in it. Then I worked backwards thinking how I could get it that way. Sometimes other items had to be relocated to make way for the new item.
One area in particular that was an issue for me was my jewelry. It has been in some trays in a drawer for years, yet I really did NOT like this solution. I wanted it in my closet where I actually dress, however, my shelves were full of books that had no real home. So I imagined how I wanted my closet to work and started to work. The books came out and went to the room where they should have been in the first place. Then after a deep clean, I moved the jewelry in place and started organizing. I had a bunch of old boxes with some sentimental pieces handed down to me, but they didn't look too good.
A large basket with a lid hid them all nicely and stayed in keeping with my "vision"...
If lack of time or poor maintenance routines are an issue, give yourself 10-15 minutes each day to tackle the piles and you'll find they're shrinking fairly fast. Do it for 30 days and you'll have that habit in place. If you plan to use it in the future, there are ways to manage it that will keep the item at hand while still keeping them "in mind". If it's the kids, you have a parenting issue, not so much an organizing one, UNLESS... they're like you and they don't really know where to put it.
I've tried to make a home for each item in the house for a few years, but seems like I avoided a few items because they were tougher to find a good location to park them. This summer, my goal was to find a home for EVERY LAST THING!!! That's right... every item down to the last paper.
To do this, I found I had to go back and do a little purging... again. But, purging needs to happen on a regular basis anyway. I got my donation box all set up and items are headed to the thrift store. Next I had to do some creative problem solving for these tough to place items.
I found that if I narrowed down WHERE it should go, based on where I use the item, then I at least had a starting place. Next I usually took everything out of the space where I wanted to house it and just stared. Yep, you read that right... stare. And think. And imagine. Sometimes I'd google some ideas on the Internet, but usually I thought about how I WANTED the space to look with the item in it. Then I worked backwards thinking how I could get it that way. Sometimes other items had to be relocated to make way for the new item.
One area in particular that was an issue for me was my jewelry. It has been in some trays in a drawer for years, yet I really did NOT like this solution. I wanted it in my closet where I actually dress, however, my shelves were full of books that had no real home. So I imagined how I wanted my closet to work and started to work. The books came out and went to the room where they should have been in the first place. Then after a deep clean, I moved the jewelry in place and started organizing. I had a bunch of old boxes with some sentimental pieces handed down to me, but they didn't look too good.
A large basket with a lid hid them all nicely and stayed in keeping with my "vision"...
Notice it gave me a little more space on the shelf as well. Always a nice bonus. But I'm going to be careful not to fill it too quickly! The remaining trays were stacked neatly on the shelf to the right (sorry, I don't have a photo!) and are easier to accessorize with my outfit.
What about those books I had to relocate? Well, for 8 years I had been holding out for some built in bookcases. I finally decided that a few dollars spent on a movable bookshelf of lesser quality was worth my piece of mind and I ordered two to solve our book dilemma. All the books are finally in the school room or upstairs in the girl's space with a few cookbooks in my kitchen office. Oh, the joy of having a home for my books!! Now when there's a book lying around, I actually have a space to put it in!
Be sure the new home...
• fits your item and doesn't have to be stuffed in there!
• is actually where you use it or need it
• is labeled or is easy for everyone to remember what belongs in that space
• announced to the entire family!
• looks attractive or pleases you in terms of feeling neat and organized
• gives you room to grow if it's something that will accumulate over time
As the summer wore on, I found homes for all kinds of things... electronic chords, computer disks, toys, ... I feel like I'm on a hunt now to find a home for any remaining item that is "lost". It's kind of addicting!
So the moral of this little story... if you have a stray item that's been lying around, find a home for it... right now!


Terrific post...I couldn't agree more! For me, it's paperwork that seems to accumulate out of control. And as far as kids items...yes, we need a little deep cleaning there too! Thanks for your thoughts.
ReplyDeleteKeeping a clean, uncluttered home is one of those challenges for women with family. But, when the home is tidy, the work to keep it that way is worth it.
ReplyDeleteI think most people have this delema lol it seems to be a big part of life and I think this day and age we all have to much anyways ! I am always putting things were they belong every day its a phobia for me , it drives me nuts when it isnt put back where it belongs. great post and soo very true for all ! Have a wonderful day !
ReplyDeleteI love this morning post. I also love having my surroundings tidy ( but it's not always tidy because...)
ReplyDeleteMy biggest issue is my dear hubby who like everything within reach and he stacks. The messiest rooms are the office with piles of papers and his den.
I've tried organizing and labeling and finding a room for everything but he never seem to be able to put things back where they belong, closing drawers or doors or turning lights off as his mind is always in a rush.
If there's a square inch of space available he will quickly fill it but I still love him anyway. I find this situation oppressing though. JB
I can not tell you how helpful this post has been to me...I am a 'big mess', and need direction to do something about it. I get a sort of paralysis when I look at the piles and items crammed into areas. You have pointed it all out in a very simple way and given straight forward directions to follow to get to the finish line. Thank you, thank you, thank you !!
ReplyDeleteI am still in the decluttering phase but I love that you wrote this post. I have never been able to keep a place for most things and I think it never made sense to me. I really like how you work through finding a new home. I am going to have right that down.
ReplyDeleteIsn't it nice to accomplish an organizational task that makes life easier? Our newest task was enclosing 100 sq ft of deck at the end of the cabin to make life more livable in our living area.
ReplyDeleteOur organizational problem is really very real, living in a cabin under construction and having 1000 sq feet of travel trailer, cabin and utility room for 11 people, we manage the best we can. There really is not a good place for everything! We've pared down, we've expanded square feet, we have plans to add on and complete what's started......plans ; ) as the Lord provides...
But the plain reality for us is that things MUST be stacked or hung from the ceiling, and we've done both. But, I remind myself that its a time of life, it won't last forever, and it encourages us to keep completing and adding well planned space, or sometimes just space ; ) And brainstorm to see how we can best use the space that we have and live life as normally as possible in the midst of it all.
The most difficult thing is trying to teach children to put things back where they got them, even if its not the greatest place in the first place. We struggle with this having camped in a trailer for a year, then camped in a trailer and canvas deck tent, and now camping in a roughed out cabin with trailer and utility shed. But, we are improving our organization and space usage, s.l.o.w.l.y. ; ) And for that, we're grateful!
Mommaof10 ~ the nice about your situation is you have lots of time to think through EXACTLY what before you build it!
ReplyDeleteJulie ~ perhaps your husband just doesn't know where to begin and he's afraid that papers put away means they aren't accesible. You might try asking him if this is the case, at which time you can offer solutions that would meet his needs and yours. I have a post about dealing with paperwork in particular...
http://homesteadrevival.blogspot.com/2010/06/dealing-with-piles-of-paperwork.html
Hope this helps!
Yes! I struggle finding a home for everything because I have to rearrange and then find homes for the things I moved. I still have lots of my books in boxes because there is no place to put them! Hubby has been promising to build me a big bookshelf for years...
ReplyDeleteVery timely post for me, I love organized spaces, and many areas of my home are organized, however, over the summers piles grew and grew. I am currently working on my big fall clean up- and my goal is to find everything a place- mostly in my office paperwork area, but also the stray pile of no home stuff in my garage and laundry room. Your post is very motivating- love how your closet turned out!!
ReplyDeleteBrilliant! Super fab post. Found your blog randomly and am enjoying it since my first visit. **New Follower**
ReplyDeleteI'll share my guilt. Reciently the clutter has been a thorn in my side. U know what I did? Took the little piles of "don't know what to do with stuff" and put it in little brown shopping bags to deal with when I have the time. To toddlers and a hubby on Overtime all the time I just couldn't deal. So I really enjoyed your post. Bring it sister!
Hope you'll stop by I think we have a lot in common :-)
Welcome to HR! (theblessingsofmoderndomestication!). Glad you found your way here and that you're enjoying your time here. Sometimes just getting the area cleared off is the biggest priority. But don't wait too long to go trough that stack. I've done that before and found I missed something VERY important. Pop a movie in this weekend and sort through it when you can!
ReplyDeleteAwesome post! I've been working on this for a while. We've been in the midst of a basement remodel since January. My husband bought the house before I met him, and the basemement was "finished". However, there was nasty indoor/outdoor carpet (in a basement!), and paneling, and at some point, water damage. It all equaled a musty smelling (mold!), cave-like, unuseable space. It really bothered me because there is a bedroom, a bathroom, an office area, a family/living area, two storage areas and a laundry room down there! We used 1 storage area and the laundry room, but the rest was FILLED with stuff. Stuff we didn't want or need.
ReplyDeleteWhen our second son was born last December, and we converted our office/guest room to a nursery, it was time to face the basement. We frequently have family and friends visiting from out of town, and really needed the bedroom down there.
It felt AWESOME to haul 1 pick up truck, and two van loads FULL of stuff to Goodwill! It was even better when my husband ripped out all the carpet and damaged paneling and drywall.
Now, we're at the point of finally organizing everything in the house. I've felt like everything was on hold until the basement was done. The new ceiling will go in soon (a few weeks), and then it will be DONE!!! It's bright and beautiful, with vanilla custard paint, and a ceramic tiled floor... and overwhelming to go through everything and find a home for it. :) What a great dilemma though!
We've had to store some things in our main living space during the remodel, and the clutter is driving me crazy! I've taken all this time to really think about what will work for me, and I can't wait to implement all my ideas. Oh, and there WILL be more loads going to Goodwill!!!
Good for you, Jen!!! You're going to LOVE your new space and feel so organized. It will go a long way to relieve stress, too, I'm sure. Enjoy the new basement!
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